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It’s almost an unwritten rule: DON’T have *** with your workmates, and even more importantly – don’t root your boss (unless your boss is a) hot and b) you have significant reason it will further your career! But all jokes aside – it is not advisable to have casual relationships at work. But should you still be determined to get some cubicle nooky with a hottie from work, better follow these rules which might help you keep your job (if not your honor) intact.

A 2006 US study called ‘Love In the Workplace’ says 6% of U.S adults have previously dated a co-worker and 5 of those 6% admitted that relationship made work uncomfortable but 35% admit having fantasized about a co-worker.

1. Know the rules

Before getting hot and frisky with a co-worker, check your company’s employee book. If the rules say no inter-office dating and you want to keep your job, keep your thoughts – and your hands – to yourself!

2. Know your co-worker

It’s advisable to get to know your co-worker before pursuing a romantic relationship. Make sure he/she is single, not one to kiss and tell and most importantly, not related to your boss! News in an office travel fast – you don’t want to become the office gossip.

3. No means no

She/he loves you not? If you ask a co-worker out and she/he says no, that’s it. Game over. Do not pass go. Do not ask again, do not sulk and do not make further references to the encounter, jokes or innuendos. Be careful, the wrong behavior in that department can quickly lead to a sexual harassment charge!

4. Create a workplace prenup



Before moving forward in a relationship, have a candid conversation about what might happen if things go south. Be aware of any potential consequences to your career before starting a relationship and agree on boundaries and expectations.



5. Don’t fish in your boss’s pond



If your new “love bunny” works in the same department as you do, be prepared to change departments or tell your boss.

6. Date up, not down



If you have a choice, it’s always safer dating someone above you. You may get fired, but at least you won’t get slapped with a sexual harassment suit. And on that note…tempting as it may be, stay clear of temps. Contractors, consultants, and interns can all spell trouble, Mr. President. Just because they don’t work for your company full-time doesn’t mean that the rules of the game are any different when it comes to dating these folks (at least while they’re under your roof).

7. Keep your privates private



Don’t gab about your new romance. Love in the workplace becomes dangerous when it’s out in the open for others to scrutinize. No flirting, furtive glances in the elevator or taps on the derriere. People catch on to these cues.

8. Use Hotmail for ‘hot’ mail



This may seem obvious, but plenty of people disregard it. Never use company email to exchange love notes or anything remotely suggestive. Companies can and do monitor email exchanges. If you must profess your undying affection while at work, use a private web-based email service like Yahoo or Hotmail.

9. Don’t drink and date



We know the work-christams do is dangerous environment when you already have an eye on a co-worker. Be wary of office parties and more than 2 drinks. Too many careers have been killed when people have dropped their guard at an office party.

10. Your Office or Mine? NEITHER.



C’mon people, get a room. Don’t have *** or “sexual relations” in the office. Period. 



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Dr Dan asked:


you would have had conceptual idea about what romance scam is. In this article, I’m going to quote some real-world profiles and messages used by romance scammers on my site to illustrate how scammers make up their stories. These profiles and messages were reprinted without any alteration. So you will see some spelling and grammar errors. Free Dating Free Chat rooms

Profile examples

Profile #1

I am emotional and passionate, open and kind, very serious about life. I have great sense of humor and I adore smiling.I am a good hostess, kind and communicable person, with good sense of humor, but have serious attitude to life, very vulnerable, also I am reliable, responsible and careful. I do not use make up, I always prefer natural beauty. I like sun, the sea and the beach. In the future I would like to have 2 children (a boy and a girl). i am looking for a real man, a real gentleman who knows how to treat a real lady like me, who is not afraid to have a beautiful young wife close to him and who will appreciate such kinds as loyalty and will be ready to give it in return.I hope to meet with the man of my dreams – very cheerful, generous, tender, kind and at the same moment strong and purposeful.I want to meet a man, who will be the only one for the whole life, who will love me. I would like to be treated like a queen.

Profile #2

I don’t like fake people, drugs, or couch potatoes. I love diversity and I enjoy people that are down to earth. I desire to become a better person inside and out. I’m a music fanatic. I have a hunger to learn new things. One of my hobbies is studying photography. One of my goals is to become a model. I like positive people and I try to surround myself with people who have an open mind

Profile #3

I am an open, loving, and romantic woman who enjoys reading, listening to music, and watching films. I love to cook, especially for others. I have a sense of humor which is a little left of center. I ‘ll admit that I have a tiny bit of baggage, but it’s more carry-on than check-in. I am definitely ready to meet Him, the man I am meant to grow old with. I think about him

What is most important to me is to be with someone who enjoys my company, has a tremendous amount of warmth, integrity and loyalty with honesty and great affection. I am not a partier and would prefer to be with someone who, while he enjoys a good time, doesn’t necessarily want to burn the candle at both ends. I am a morning person. I love to wake up, read the paper, go for a walk and start my day on a high note. I am totally over cynicism. I love a dry, but good-natured sense of humor. I am looking for someone who posseses personal style and takes care of himself physically and emotionally but but best i can take care of him better that he may think he do . Most of all, I want to meet someone who is not afraid of love, committment and my free spirit. he most be attractive, sensitive and possesses integrity, warmth, and an earthiness that draws me in. I prefer a men who have experienced in life a bit. He must enjoy traveland if he desnt , well its okay by me because i enjoy travelling , i have been so meny country, the arts, and be well-educated or at least intelligent. I am not looking for perfection, just someone who is in touch with himself and is honest about what he wants in life. My perfect match will totally get me: my sense of humor, occasional intensity, and quirky habits. I will adore him , feminine men: soft skin, cute hair, a dab of lipstick. I love to be cooked for but can best do that , to be spoiled on occasion. I am not high maintenance, but flowers or a love letter are nice. I love celebrating big moments…and little moments.

Message examples

These messages normally start with a sense of desire to know more about you and in return, show you more about me.

Message #1

My name is Helena and I am 29 years old. I have no kid. I am a very personable person and I like to be involved in a lot of things. I have a problem at the moment wich is just a minor setback for me and I have a lot to catch up on when I return home. I don’t have anyone in my life (friend or family) at this time and I do get lonely. I’m using this as a means to meet new people and stay updated on fashion!! . I also will pursue my modeling career upon my return home. I am not looking for love, just a companion. If love should fine me then I’m open to it, I will like to hook up sometimes but at the moment I am having a big problem Thats is making things hard for me that’s why I said when I return dont know if you care to know what my problems are. Hope to hear from you soon!u can email me diectl to my email hvendetta@htomail.com

Message #2

I am very family oriented, although i have no children. I am definatly real and in West Africa now. Remember that your best friend in the whole world was a total stranger at one time. Get to know me, there are no complications in my life and i’m versatile like vanilla ice cream. I am, can be and will be full of nice surprises. Most of all, i’m sincere I’m not looking for one nighters or friends with benifits. I want someone to share love and life with.

My man would be my angel. And how do we treat angels ? With respect and love. And like we really appreciate them.

I’m not into the niteclub scene and my life would appear boring, but I have fun and those around me do also. I don’t have or want “drama”.

I’m only here to find my partner, than i’m done with online chat. I want someone attractive and healthy but not perfect, and if you have kids… great !

Either way ” I want to have kids in my life also ” I feel that I would be a great mother if the right person is willing to share that LIFETIME responsibility.

My group of friends is small by choice and there’s room for another. If your heart is beating a bit faster now… it could be you. Anyways im presently in west africa, Nigeria for my job(work for an importing company as the sales rep. Sells and Exports African Fabircs (Atire), If you’ve got a Y! IM to communicate, you can as well just put my first and last name together you’ll get my IM id.tobyjhonson at yahoo .co.uk or goldenheart09 at hotmail.com

hope to hear from you. Looking forward to findout the chemistry between us Ur #1 Fan, Toby.

Message #3

Hello, This is Angellina from Cowandilla in Australia ,i go through you profile its look nice and lovely. I am a sexy, loyal, and devoted woman who’s looking for a man to please me.Someone to share personal moments with, enjoy life and to firmly hold the blessings of a lasting and undying happiness. I am willing to relocate to a secure foundation a steady relationship and to meet the terms,I’m a strong,sexy, smart, independent female with many goals and lots of drive. I like romantic evenings and bedroom talk. I’m a real woman looking for a real man,and i hope you will be the real man to me.If you’re really interested you can e-mail me direct to this address angel064luv@yahoo.com or angel064luv@hotmail.com or add me to your messager list.

Message #4

This how it happened 10yrs ago my father died in Tribble car accident and before then i was doing fine had a good job and my own place which i gave up because we had to sell the family house because there was a big mortgage on it,my sister had her own problems at the time and she has her own place and family so i couldnt leave my mother on her own so we rented a house together,we where both doing fine then b4 she had a cancer and died when i could not get money.some days afther i heard a friend of my who lives in nigeria she has an accident and she was in the hospital i have to move there to see her health when i arrive there i lost the hospital address and it night and i can’t get flight at night cos it too dangerous for me to go home at nigth i have to log in a hotel for me to go the next day in the midnight some mens came so they attack me and stole all my money goods i brought In the hotel and they ran away but they did not hurt me i try to explain things to the hotel but they will not believe me so they said all they need is there money so right now am stucked in a hotel in nigeria and all i now to come back home is to pay the hotel bill and i will be glad if you can



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